It is really scary how few people can handle honesty. The society is getting so “politically correct” that we are approaching an era in which there are only platitudes and niceties. *YUCK* I try to dispel that in my little corner of the world. You have my word that I will always “call them as I see them.” Don’t try to have a chart reading with me if you need everything rose colored. With that introduction, onto the article.

1. Uranus in the Fourth House indicates a childhood in which the native felt unsafe.

2. Pluto in the Fourth House indicates violence in the home—expressed or suppressed.

3. Chiron in the 7th House, likely, feels insecure in intimate relationships. He may anticipate pain and loss. Hence, he may create that which he fears.

4. Saturn trine Uranus is brilliant with very little effort.

5.Moon square Saturn may have a very hard relationship with the mother. The native may feel the mother is a burden and the native may feel guilty about these feelings.

6. Moon conjunct Pluto may have a “smother mother”.

7.Mars conjunct the Moon may be very irritable.

8. Sun in the 12th House may lack confidence. She may hold back so she does not attract attention.

9.Venus Conjunct the Sun may be very attractive, but it will be in a non threatening kind of “vanilla” way.I think of the male model in the Sears catalogue. The native may try too hard to please.

10.Mars in Cancer may have stomach problems due to unexpressed anger.

11.A full 2nd House with personal planets, particularly if it is in Taurus, may be a gold digger.

13. Venus conjunct Mars is always a sexy person.

14.Mars in Scorpio is always a sexy man.

15.Neptune in close square with Mercury could make a person not see reality clearly i.e see life though the lens of delusions.

16.The Leo Ascendant is an excellent story teller, but has to be careful of being an attention hog.

17. Libra Ascendant tends to be lazy.

18. Jupiter conjunct the Ascendant may have weight issues.

19. Saturn conjunct Venus may make the person feel she has to be perfect in order to be loved.

20.Saturn or Chiron in the 3rd House may indicate learning struggles.

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I think about Astrology a lot. I think about charts of people I know and charts of my clients. Sometimes, I make connections that I think will be of interest to you. This is one. My original thought is of a person I know who has an exact conjunction of Mars and the Moon. He seems to be a very angry person i.e hot headed. I got to thinking of how Mars AGITATES things. In his case, the Moon is females. Hence, I bet his does not really like women too much. This would include his mother, first of all, and then his wife.Then, I started thinking of my own chart which has a very wide Mars/Moon conjunction at nine degrees. I had a very hard time with my mother. I tend to trust men more than women. (I have a Gemini Sun with only positive aspects.) In general, Mars stirs things up. That is the subject of this article.

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I am an avid reader. When I read a biography or autobiography, my next step is to run to the charts. I have been noticing that people who seem to make poor life decisions seem to, often, have Mercury in hard aspect to Neptune. Mercury is the planet of the mind. Neptune is the planet of deception. It is, also, the planet of creativity. If a person has Neptune in good aspect–the trine or sextile, they will, usually, have a wonderful imagination, but still have a firm footing in reality.

If a person has Mercury in hard aspect, one can see a slippage in the logic of the decision making skills. Now, I am not saying everyone with aspect is mentally ill. However, I AM saying that they can do things that look goofy to a logical person. I will give an example of a famous person–Melania Trump. I love Donald Trump. If I could kiss him a thousand times I would. Please, Trump haters, don’t bother me. Back to Melania. I think she made a grave error in judgement when she wore the jacket with the “I Really Don’t Care” message. She was setting herself up for more hate, not less. When a person is in a position in which they are hated, they should not fuel the fire. This incident made me rush to her chart and there was Mercury oppose Neptune.

I have seen the exact square in a person who, sadly, lost touch with reality.

I have the trine. This is a classic aspect for a writer.

I hope you enjoyed this rather bite size article.

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I wrote another article on Venus/Neptune. It was entitled “The Price Becomes the Frog”. It is an apt title. I am writing a new and shorter article due to an autobiography I read by Mia Farrow. If she did not have deception in love, I don’t know who did. She would meet a man, go on a trip with him and marry him. I was gobsmacked. I checked her chart. I think She has Mercury oppose Neptune. The square is harder than the opposition. The opposition can bring a great deal of deception. With the square, it is just more.

In the case of Venus/Neptune, the conjunction is very bad, as well. I know people don’t like when I am direct. If you don’t like when I am direct, go to an amorphous mush site. Then, you will have
a non digestible split pea soup explanation. On this subject, I developed my site because *I* was so frustrated when I was learning astrology. I craved for someone to “say it straight”. URRGG.

To sum up the subject. If you have Venus in hard aspect to Neptune, please be careful when you fall in love. If you don’t have it in the natal but DO have it in synastry, move very slowly. I had the opposition in synastry with someone. I did think he was the prince, but he was the King of Frogs. It took me years to see it and a lot of humiliation along the way, so maybe, I can save you that.

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Ami, these are my trines. Are they gifts?

Sun Trine Moon orb: 5 °
Moon Trine Mercury orb: 1 °
Pluto Trine Chiron orb: 6 °
Neptune Trine MC orb: 0 °
Mars Trine North Node orb: 2 °
Mars Trine Saturn orb: 2 °
Venus Trine MC orb: 5 °
Uranus Trine MC orb: 4 °

This is a comment on my website from a lovely girl with a hard chart. Some charts are harder than others. For some people, as in my case, you cannot see that a chart is hard unless you see it in synastry with a parent. Then, you can see the struggles with which the native grappled. Also, some charts may seem easy with planets, but asteroids may make them very difficult. It takes me five days to do an entire natal chart.

Well, onto this lovely lady and her trines. I do not have her actual chart, so I do not know which houses are occupied by these planets. Knowing the houses is KEY because in these houses the gifts will come to fruition. So, for everyone reading, factor in the houses when you look at the trines. I will give an example from my chart. I have many trines. Two are Neptune trine the Sun and Neptune trine Mercury.My Sun and Mercury are in the NINTH house, so my gifts would be ninth house gifts such as a keen intellect, a good imagination and writing ability, also teaching ability. I don’t say this ti brag. Trines are unearned gifts.

Now, onto the above trines.

Sun Trine Moon

This is a person whose head and heart work together. This person trusts his intuition. This is a very powerful trine. This trine really helps a person trust himself and that is very important.

Moon Trine Mercury

With this trine, the person trusts his emotions and can express them well. This would be an excellent aspect for a poet.

Pluto Trine Chiron

This aspect helps the person deal with pain by using his personal power as a mechanism to deal with his deep pain. Always check the house of Chiron to see the life area of the most pain. For example, if Chiron is in the second house, money would be the area of pain. I have many articles on Chiron, so use my search engine to find them, if you are interested in studying Chiron more.

Neptune Trine the MC

This native is, likely, creative in the work place.

Mars Trine the North Node

This native has a natural drive to meet his life purpose. This is a blessing. Always pay attention to the NN. It is a huge marker for life purpose.

Mars Trine Saturn

I have this and I love it. I am very disciplined. I practice yoga every day. I have gone on a 30 day juice fast. If I want to do something, I enjoy seeing if I can discipline myself. This would be this trine.

Venus Trine the MC

The native will bring beauty to her job. It could be the beauty of grace of actually working in a beauty industry, such as hone design.

Uranus Trine the MC

The native will bring a brilliance to her job in the manner of an inventor or independent thinker in some field.

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There is someone in my life to whom I have an attraction. His Moon is exactly opposite my Moon. My Moon conjuncts my IC. This makes the connection stronger. The IC is a very personal and very deeply felt point. However, my conclusion is that opposite moons would not work well in a marriage. When I have broached this topic in the past, I get the proverbial response that my Grammy Inga and my Grandpa Adolf have been married for 50 years and they have opposite moons. My response is, “Are you in their bedroom?”

I am a moon freak. The chart begins and ends with moons. This is because the moon is the heart. Why even have an intimate relationship if it is not one of heart connection? That is my opinion. I am a Cancer Moon. When it is all said and done, when ego takes a rest, when the night has fallen, when one is alone, when one is hurting, it all comes down to moons. Hence, I do not think moon oppose moon is good in a marriage.

An opposite Moon sign sees the world in an “opposite way”. It is that simple. If I cry over a movie, he will say to “be strong”. If he makes a practical decision, I will say that it should be an emotional one. If he wants up, I will want down. I think opposite moons are fine in friendship. In fact, it can make for a very nice friendship. One person can balance out the other. However, when you simply want one person to UNDERSTAND, the opposite moon will not.

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In the case of squared moons, I think they are a disaster for any relationship. Opposed Moons can be fine for a friendship. I just wrote an article on this. In fact, opposed moons can help one achieve balance. One person is the yin and the other is the yang. However, square moons always spell disaster, in my opinion. When bringing up this subject, I get the usual “blah,blah, blah—-my grandpa Adolf has a square moon with my grandma Inge. Well, my pithy response is “are you in their bedroom?’

I think a relationship can survive and even thrive with squared suns. I am very close to someone with a squared sun. However, we have a very different approach to life. Think Felix and Oscar in the “Odd couple”. If you don’t know them, think messy and neat, organized and disorganized or serious and silly. However, with moons we are dealing with the heart. The heart is the most important part of the person, in my opinion. The human heart is very vulnerable. When one is in an intimate relationship, the partners must understand each other at a very deep level. If not, why even have a relationship.

I have never seen a case of a happy relationship in which there were squared moons. In fact, one girl called me all sorts of names when she moved in with her squared moon boyfriend. Well, he choked her and she escaped with her life. She did have the courtesy of apologizing to me. So, that is one story.

I hope you enjoyed this short article and leave your comments on my Comment section. I try to answer them all!

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I try ti write articles on that which I have experienced. If not, I try to write articles on that which my clients have experienced. I am not an egghead astrologer. I like to talk from the heart. In the case of this article, there is someone in my life who has his moon as an exact conjunction to my IC.

I have noticed how safe and sane I feel with him. It is funny that I feel “sane” with him. I am very high strung, having a complete earth void. He is a Capricorn Moon and Capricorn is a very stable kind of moon. Capricorn Moon is very practical and very centered on the earth.

I know this is a very short article but it makes me realize how very important the IC is. If you have
similar experiences, drop me a comment on my Comment section.

Conversely, if a person puts his Uranus on your IC, you receive and electric jolt and not in a good way. I have seen this in the synastries of my clients.

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There is someone in my life with whom I have an exact Moon trine Moon. On a related note, I notice how many people in life “gaslight” one. Gaslighting is an attempt to distort the reality of another person. I grew up with parents who severely gaslighted me. By the time I reached my late teens, I did not trust myself at all. If I had a feeling, I thought I was “bad” or “selfish”. URGG. I know I am not alone.

Gaslighting in one’s present life is very dangerous for someone who does not trust himself or herself. So, I have found that one of the best ways to combat this is to find people with Moon trine Moon. My discovery happened by accident. I was having a conversation with the person who has her Moon trine mine. I felt so “sane” afterwards. WHY? She did not gaslight me.
HA–I made a discovery.

Gaslighting is endemic in this world.World systems and many people are lying in wait to gaslight the unsuspecting person. This is the simple truth of this present earth. The answer is that one must trust oneself. It is very difficult if one had a childhood in which one was severely undermined. I have the asteroid Sado(sadism) conjunct my IC, exact. This shows that I had sadism inflicted on me as a child, which I did. Hence, I need to make a great effort to trust my gut. We all do!

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Thank Goodness for astrology because it will answer the above question. I got the birth date of someone who does a particular service for me. I do not like her at all and she does not like me. This is at a deep feeling level. We are very pleasant to each other. In the contest of our relationship, we are pleasant and chatty. I thought the problem would be moons. However, our moons are sextile by sign, so not an issue.

AHA Her Saturn/Chiron conjunction makes a T square with my North Node and my Sun. Well, I do feel that she does not wish me well. That is kind of the main feeling I have with her. This would explain it. She would be a thwart to my life purpose and my confidence. That is exactly how it feels. These aspects are very close, too—– 1-3 degree orb.

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I watch my daily life for nuances in my relationships and I go back to the chart and see the REASONS. There are always reasons and the chart will elucidate them. What a gift we have!

Moon Conjunct Mars

The moon person feels the “ick” factor in this one. The nature of the interaction is that the Mars person feels a need to irritate the moon person. The moon person may try to reconcile,but it will not work long term.

Saturn square the North Node

I wrote an article about this and I will link it. I noticed this with a person who works for me. I cannot stand her presence near me. She is a nice person. It makes no logical sense. However, the chart showed me the reason. She wants to get the upper hand. She wants to give me unwanted advice. Saturn is the stern father. Saturn knows better. Saturn tells you to take your vitamins and eat your veggies. In the case of the square, it would feel worse than some other aspects due to the uncomfortable nature of the square. This person has a Saturn/Chiron conjunction that makes an almost exact square to my North Node.

Chiron Square the North Node

The above individual has Chiron square my NN as I said. Chiron makes for a huge ick factor in relationships. However, it is a strange one. Chiron can draw people together. It can make people feel like soul mates even. However, the pain of Chiron seems to make the relationship implode. In Chiron relationships, as I call them, the conjunction is usually the main factor. The conjunction DRAWS people together and within a short time seems to repel them. With the square, I am not really sure of the dynamics but I would guess that it just feels icky and repulsive in general. That is how I feel with this person.

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1. Your Saturn Conjunct Your Sun

I recently saw this in the chart of a girl who has “everything” or so I thought. In reality, having a mother who carps on you like” white on rice” is not having everything. Each chart has its struggles. Some charts are a great deal harder than others. No one knows why. Only God knows and God wants everyone to come to Him. I think the difficult charts are probably for the people who need more pain in order to come to God. However, everyone seems to need to be humbled to find God.

2. Uranus Conjunct the Moon

These natives have a deep kind of emotional brilliance. I think of a “way out” artist, poet or musician. By “way out”, I mean someone who is so brilliant that most people will not understand him.However, the price for this brilliance is not worth it, in my opinion. The mother was, likely, unstable in some way which made a deep and negative(obviously) impression on the native.

3.Asteroid Blewit conjunct the Moon

This native had an exceptionally hard mother. Her world was shattered, in a way, by a deep sense of failure in her relationship with her mother and with her own emotions. Study the asteroid Blewit in the chart and you will see failure in the areas in which it manifests.

4. Chiron Conjunct the Moon

This aspect reveals a very painful relationship with the mother. As in the above example, the native’s own emotions may be very painful to him. All in all, there is a great deal of pain with the mother and in one’s own heart.

5. Sedna Conjunct the Sun

Sedna is extreme betrayal by a man, usually a father. Later, more betrayal may ensure with husbands. Sedna is a very sad story. I have an article on her which explains her plight. It brings tears to my eyes. In the case of Sedna conjunct the Sun, the father, likely, betrayed the native quite badly. Betrayal by men may be a lifelong theme for this native through no fault of her own.

6.Uranus Square the Sun

In this case, there is a kind of “locked in” warfare between the native and her father. It is unlikely to be resolved. I believe a relationship with Jesus can overcome any chart aspect, but short of that, I do not believe squares can be resolved.

7. Chiron Conjunct the Sun

This is extreme pain in the relationship with the father. When Chiron conjuncts the Sun at an exact or very close degree, the person seems beset with a lifetime of chronic insecurity.

8. Madhatter Conjunct the Sun

I have found this asteroid to be prominent in people who were made to feel as if they were the “crazy one” in a family. Usually, the “crazy” one is just manifesting the insanity of the family. However, it is easier for the rest of the family to blame one person, who is labelled the scapegoat. *SIGH* Can you see why I want to go to Heaven so much? In the case of Madhatter conjunct the Sun, the father may have been the primary figure in wreaking havoc on the mental health of the native.

9. Chiron Square the Moon

In the case of this square, the relationship with the mother is never likely to be resolved. Inside the person is a deep pain and his own emotions may be inaccessible to him.Sad!

10. Saturn Square the Moon

I saw this in the charts of two women, of whom I was jealous. I was jealous because they seemed to have supportive and loving
relationships with their mothers and I did not. However, the chart unlocks all secrets, so I found that it was not as it seemed. These natives tend toward depression. A big part of that depression is guilt about not being “good enough” for and to the mother.

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One of the ladies in one of my Facebook Astrology groups asked me what about Pluto with respect to parents. My wish is her( and your command). Yes, Pluto plays a large factor in one’s relationship with one’s parents, as we shall see.

1. Pluto Conjunct the Sun

These natives have a great deal of inner strength. I love this aspect because my favorite aunt had it in the 4th house. She ruled her children but she was full of love. She was a powerhouse as a mother and all her children did exceptionally well in life. In the case of this aspect, the father had a great influence on the native. This one aspect does not tell us if it were a good influence or a bad influence, just a strong, defining influence.

2. Pluto Square the Sun

This aspect may be a father with whom one cannot reconcile. There may be deep feelings between the parent and child, but somehow they can never quite mend fences. I saw this aspect in a person who lost his father at an early age, so I suspect trauma with a father’s death or something of this nature may be indicated by this aspect, too.

3. Moon Conjunct Pluto

I call this the “smother mother” aspect. When I think of a smother mother, it seems nice. However, I am sure it is not. These natives usually have a lot of guilt and
the feeling that they can never do enough for the mother.

4. Moon Square Pluto

In this case, there are, likely, very deep feelings in the relationship but there seems to be an inability to reconcile. These kinds of things are very sad, but each chart has sad elements.

5. Moon Oppose Pluto

In this case, there is, likely, a back and forth kind of relationship in which the parties are close and then, likely, fight and break apart and then come back.

6. Moon Trine Venus

This is a native who was really loved by his mother. Also, this is a strong charm aspect for the Moon Trine Venus native. If they are men, they love women and women feel this and love them back. These men, also,seem to have many female friends and seem to prefer women to men.

7. Cancer Moon

It is said that these natives have a difficult relationship with mother. I can attest to that as a Cancer Moon. However, on the up side, we love being mothers ourselves. I loved being pregnant, too, which is unusual. We, Cancer Moons, are strong protectors of those whom we love. Also, if someone hurts someone we love, we are like fierce pecking chickens—–nice visual.

8. Moon Conjunct Mars

This is a relationship with the mother which is of a violent nature. It may not be actual violence, but may be fighting and dissension.

9. Moon Square Mars

These natives may fight with their mothers, but never be able to resolve the relationship i.e constant fighting with no resolution.

10.Moon Oppose Mars

These natives may have a volatile relationship with the mother, but it may abate at times only to start again in a never ending cycle.

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I like tidbits. I like to eat them. Nothing makes me happy than a little taste of this and a little taste of that rather than eat a full meal.I hope you pick up a few things of interest in this article.

1. In synastry, if one finds Uranus in hard aspect to the Sun, the Uranus person will be the rebellious child and the Sun person will be the stabilizing force.

2.Aphopis Asteroid conjunct Mercury makes for a person who cannot figure out simple things. I have seen it with ADD and heard about it in autism. James Comey has it–exact. He, obviously, went to law school and he was the head of the FBI, so he had to be able to think. However, he does seem lacking in basic wisdom and he seems somewhat deluded.

3. Asteroid Aphophis conjunct Venus seems to indicate relationships which never work out for the native..Remember that asteroids must be very close–exact to three degrees in a conjunction. In other aspects, I allow a two degree orb. However, some astrologers only allow for exact aspects.

4.Moon in Libra does not seem to understand the concept of loyalty. I know people will get angry when they read this, but my experience with this moon is that if it costs them anything, they will not stand up for you.

5. People with many planets in the 9th House, with the exception of the planets Chiron and Saturn, seem to love to read. I have a Gemini stellium of the Sun, Mercury and Venus in the 9th House and reading is my favorite activity.

6. Cancer Mars may be a hypochondriac. I am not saying all of them are, but I think they may tend to be. Weigh in with your opinion.

7. Virgo Suns may be OCD. This may be a no brainer but I am close to one so see it “close up and personal”. URGG–I have never had such a neat refrigerator.

8. Unaspected Saturn has excellent character.

9. Unaspected Venus has excellent social graces.

10. Mars conjunct Mercury is direct and honest. I was just watching Simon Cowell who has this aspect and embodies this aspect.

11. Superlative charm is Moon trine Venus. I love these men!

12. People who do not know how to “fix themselves up” to best advantage may have Venus in hard aspect to the Moon. One person who posts the most awful pictures of herself on Facebook has the square.

13.Chiron in the 12th oppose Uranus in the 6th seems to have health issues based on hidden pain.

14. People with Chiron in the 12th seem to get uncomfortable when others are in pain, as if they really do not know what to do to help the person. These may even get angry when someone is in pain.

15. Sun in the 12th struggles with self confidence and self assertion. The father was absent in some way.

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HA I know I will have people write me and tell me they know people who have such and such an aspect in a long term living together relationship
and they are not miserable. I don’t believe it.

Moon Square Moon

A synastry chart can have squares and these squares will not ruin the relationship. However, if the moons are squared, it will. The moons are one’s heart. True love is heart to heart. Any love is really heart to heart.

Nessus Conjunct the Moon

Yes, a relationship may last with this aspect, but the moon person will never be entirely comfortable with the Nessus person. Nessus is the asteroid of abuse.The Nessus person may be a lion waiting for his prey. The lion may wait a lifetime, but the lion COULD kill the prey. Both parties know this at an unconscious level.

Saturn square the Moon

I think a relationship may last with this aspect, but the moon person will feel as if she were a bug under a microscope. She may always feel like she is one step away from making a mistake and the Saturn person is just waiting to pounce.

Venus Square Venus

A relationship may last with this aspect and if there is a Moon trine Moon aspect, it could overcome the Venus square Venus. However, if not, the Venus squares may bode for a lack of understanding of the tastes of the other. Tastes include mannerisms. Hence, the Venus square could make one hate the way the other”chews”. Generally speaking, to understand this aspect, one person would love classical music and the other one would love rap. One person would love tennis and one would love bowling.

Uranus square the Sun

For fun, I find the natal charts of my old boyfriends and see what really would have happened “in the real world”. Well, with one, my Uranus squares his Moon. We, also, have many love aspects such as his Venus conjunct my Mercury. However, I think that with the Uranus/Moon square, I would shake him up so much with my “weirdness” that he would run for the hills. As it is, he is a very traditional person and I do have “way out” interests, such as astrology and natural health, so I think the chart is very accurate.

Saturn Conjunct Mars

The Saturn person may dampen any passion in the Mars person.This could include drive for career and passion for sex.Hence, the relationship could be devoid of passion.

Composite Moon in the 12th House.

This one aspect would make a Composite chart not workable, in my opinion. The moon is the heart. The moon in the 12th House holds back. It is suppressed. It remains hidden and inaccessible. A relationship is all about the heart.

No Moon Aspects in the Synastry Chart

I just saw one like this. The person showing the chart asked if this were only a sexual relationship. If that, I don’t think it would be a long one. There is nothing worse than no heart connection with a person.

The Moon of one person not aspected to the chart of the other

In this case, the people are not capable of understanding each other. T

The Sun of one person not aspected to the chart of the other

In this case, there is no understanding of what makes the other person “tick”. In the case of a family member with this, one may know them for a lifetime, but lack any true understanding of their nature.

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